Dec
3
In the Trenches
Posted by househunterrealty under For Buyers, For Realty Professionals, For Sellers, General Information, Mississippi Gulf Coast
I heard from a young woman this week, the sister of a friend, who had some
questions regarding a real estate purchase. She didn™t have a real estate agent,
and she was negotiating a œfor sale by owner purchase. Being a first-time
homebuyer, she felt a little in over her head.
I answered the questions as best I could, and at the end of our conversation, she
made a comment that struck me. œI didn™t realize, she said, œhow difficult it would
be to buy a house.
My reply to her was that it shouldn™t be. And her experience gave me some real in-
the-trenches insight into the housing market issues. It provides an inside glimpse
into overall issues in the market.
Simply put, the seller has a house she wants to sell. The buyer loves the house and
wants to buy it. They have agreed on a price. My friend™s sister has pre-approval
from a lender for more than the sale price. Sounds like everything should be in
order, right?
Well, the financing has gotten tricky, and the seller is not as flexible as she would
like to be because she owes right around what the house is worth. There are a
few repairs to be made before the house can transfer, and the seller agreed to
some concessions for that, as well as paying some of the buyer™s closing costs, in
exchange for a higher sale price.
The problem is, the house didn™t appraise for that higher sales price. The seller
claims she doesn™t have enough money to bring to the table to close the deal, which
would include paying off the existing mortgage, and still make the concessions on
the repairs and buyer™s closing costs. The buyer™s lender is saying she doesn™t have
enough cash reserves to get financing if she has to pay all the closing costs and
make the repairs.
She tried to switch loan products with the lender, attempting to get more flexible
terms both with conventional and FHA loans. She even went to another lender and
explained the situation, but got roughly the same answer.
On top of that all, the seller, after the appraisal, said œThe house is worth more than
that.
So what this buyer and seller have is a stalemate. For me, it was another up-close
look at what, big-picture, is happening in real estate markets all over
Sellers owe more than their homes are worth, and, worse, hang onto this notion
that what THEY paid for the home somehow determines its worth. Buyers,
meanwhile, have to have 20 percent or more down, plus reserves, or else they™re
subjected to financing difficulties. These are all facts of life now, and nothing we all
haven™t experienced or at least heard about lately. But as someone who believes
in homeownership and the value of real estate, it™s still hard to hear someone say œI
didn™t realize buying a house would be this difficult. It also shows that working with
a qualified real estate agent can be a big help!
With the homeownership rate in the U.S. lower now than it™s been for a long time,
and with the media questioning the wisdom of purchasing real estate, the very
notion of homeownership has perhaps never been under such attack. So many
people are nervous about buying a home. Then comes along someone who really
WANTS to be a homeowner, knows she is ready for it and has found her perfect
first home. And instead of it being an exciting, enjoyable experience, it has become
an ordeal.
Of course, she is not alone. Unfortunately, the trenches are full of such stories.
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